How many of you remember getting “BIG MONEY” during the holidays from a favorite aunt or uncle or maybe your Godparent. I remember one particular Christmas, I had been sick with a very sore throat. My uncle was visiting and the family was sitting in the kitchen. I walked into the kitchen all wrapped up in my blanket. My uncle picked me up and did what he always did. He pulled a shiny silver dollar out of my ear. That was BIG MONEY back then. I remember putting it in my bank which was a wooden box with a little lock. I could not open the box and spend my money until the box was filled. To me the box looked huge and it seemed to take forever to fill, but when I did fill it I could buy US Savings Stamps and later on I put the savings in the bank. The rest of the money I could spend on toys and such at the local Five and Dime.
When my children were little and their grandparents gave them money as a gift we always encouraged them to save some, share some and spend some.
Today when your child is given a monetary gift why not help them create a 3-S bank – Saving, Sharing and Spending. All you need are three jars with lids, tape, recycled paper that is blank on one side and crayons. I find pickle jars work well, though a friend suggested using small gift boxes with lids so you can cut a slot in the top. If you use jars, wash both the jars and lids. Cut the paper into three strips wide enough to cover the jar. Make designs on the paper with the crayons and print the words – Save, Share or Spend – one word on each strip of paper. Then wrap the jar with the decorated paper and secure the paper with tape. In the past I used a sharp knife to cut a slit in the jar lid but now I suggest you just unscrew the jar lid to put in the money.
Other suggestions to build your child’s generosity:
- Encourage your child to donate an old toy for every new toy he receives,
- Ask friends to make a donation in the name of your child,
- Work with your child to sort through clothes she has outgrown. Then clean, mend, and box up the clothing and take them to your local thrift store or have a garage sale and donate the money to your child’s favorite charity.
- Most libraries will not take used books but they often have book sales with donated books. Have your child gather up books they no longer read and donate them to the library or to a homeless shelter that houses children.
- Work with your child to do a canned food drive for the local food bank in your neighborhood or family gatherings, then donate the food to the food pantry in your town.
Remember that we all learn how to be caring human beings through observation, imitation, and internalization. So teach through example, demonstrate your generous spirit today.