{"id":773,"date":"2024-06-10T03:54:00","date_gmt":"2024-06-10T07:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/site.extension.uga.edu\/thriving\/?p=773"},"modified":"2024-06-09T11:55:24","modified_gmt":"2024-06-09T15:55:24","slug":"youre-not-the-only-one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/site.extension.uga.edu\/thriving\/2024\/06\/youre-not-the-only-one\/","title":{"rendered":"You&#8217;re Not the Only One"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-28f84493 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"573\" height=\"302\" src=\"https:\/\/site.extension.uga.edu\/thriving\/files\/2024\/06\/not-alone.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-774\" srcset=\"https:\/\/site.extension.uga.edu\/thriving\/files\/2024\/06\/not-alone.jpg 573w, https:\/\/site.extension.uga.edu\/thriving\/files\/2024\/06\/not-alone-300x158.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 573px) 100vw, 573px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Farmer with arm around a younger farmer and watching the sunset over the field together.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>For the past month or so I\u2019ve had the opportunity to interview a number of producers about farm stress. I\u2019ve asked them what they have seen and experienced, and what they think farmers need to know regarding stress and stress management.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Overwhelmingly, I\u2019ve heard the same message. Over and over again, they tell me \u201cFarmers need to know they are not the only ones going through a stressful time. They are not alone.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The farmers I interviewed talked a lot about the stress of farming and the shame that comes with feeling overwhelmed on the farm. High costs, no labor, low commodity prices, family stresses\u2014it can all make a you feel worried, anxious, and depressed. Worse, it can feel like somehow, you\u2019re a failure or to blame. And like you\u2019re the only one feeling like this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The farmers I talked with kept saying things like \u201cProducers need to know that <em>lots<\/em> of farmers are feeling overwhelmed right now\u2014it\u2019s nothing to be ashamed of.\u201d&nbsp; They wanted other farmers to know that it\u2019s ok to not be ok, and that they are not alone. Overwhelmingly, I heard \u201cFarmers need to know they\u2019re not alone.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, I am passing along this message from other farmers who are walking the same path and dealing with the same stresses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you are feeling stressed or overwhelmed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>You are not alone.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You are not the only one who feels that way.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>There is nothing to be ashamed of or hide.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>People who care want to listen and support you.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Reach out and talk with someone you trust\u2014a spouse, a friend, your faith leader, your doctor.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>And I would add to this message that there are also places to call or text, if that feels more comfortable for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.farmfoundation.org\/resources\/farm-family-wellness-alliance\/\">Farm Family Wellness Alliance<\/a> &nbsp;Has services for farm families, including Togetherall, a peer support online community of farmers, and personal assistance services<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fb.org\/initiative\/farm-state-of-mind#directory\">Farm State of Mind Directory<\/a> from American Farm Bureau Federation can tell you farming specific services &nbsp;in your state<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rafiusa.org\/hotline\/\">Farmer Crisis Hotline<\/a> &nbsp;&nbsp;866.586.6746. M-F 9am-6pm someone can talk with you about your specific farm crisis and provide information and resources<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.samhsa.gov\/find-help\/988\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">988 Suicide &amp; Crisis Lifeline<\/a>&nbsp; for people in emotional distress of crisis. Call or text 988 24\/7<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are lots of people who want to support you and keep you thriving on the farm!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For the past month or so I\u2019ve had the opportunity to interview a number of producers about farm stress. I\u2019ve asked them what they have seen and experienced, and what they think farmers need to know regarding stress and stress management. Overwhelmingly, I\u2019ve heard the same message. 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